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16.6: Chapter 6

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    4.6.1. Listening Comprehension

    00:14 [Baby cooing]

    00:32 What if I was to tell you

    00:34 that a game of peekaboo could change the world?

    00:41 Sounds impossible, right?

    00:43 Well, I’m here today to prove it’s not.

    00:48 Hi, I’m Molly and I’m seven.

    00:50 And this is my little friend, Ari.

    00:52 Say “Hi,” Ari.

    00:55 Hi.

    00:57 Oh, and this is my neighbor, Amarjot.

    01:00 He has to take Ari away now to get ready for our experiment.

    01:05 But don't worry, they'll be back.

    01:08 My talk today is about some powerful things you grownups can do.

    01:12 that shape us as children and the adults we become.

    01:16 How do I know?

    01:18 Because my parents and people around me did them early and often.

    01:23 I know not all kids are as lucky.

    01:25 Some of my friends, some kids at my school and many around the world.

    01:30 And I would really like to help change that.

    01:34 Thanks to scientists,

    01:35 we now know just how important the first five years are

    01:39 for our health and development,

    01:41 especially our brains.

    01:43 Ari started learning long before he was even born,

    01:46 from inside his mommy’s tummy.

    01:48 When Ari was born,

    01:50 he was tiny and he cried all the time.

    01:55 He was always hungry and he pooped a lot.

    01:59 [Laughter]

    02:01 Now he laughs and giggles and makes funny noises.

    02:05 But those are just the changes we hear and see.

    02:08 That’s way more going on inside.

    02:12 So, let’s talk more about our brains.

    02:16 The blue bag is a rough size and weight of a healthy baby’s brain at birth.

    02:22 The red one is a baby’s brain after the first year.

    02:26 It almost doubles in volume.

    02:30 And by my age, it's almost 90 percent the volume of an adult brain.

    02:38 Our brains develop faster in our early years

    02:41 than at any other time in our lives.

    02:45 It can create up to one million neural connections every second.

    02:51 But we need your help.

    02:53 Our healthy development depends on these top five things,

    02:58 One, connecting; two, talking;

    03:02 three, playing; four, a healthy home,

    03:05 five; community.

    03:07 All of this helps our brains and us reach our full potential.

    03:12 So what’s something you can do that can really make a difference?

    03:17 Scientists call it serve and return.

    03:20 That’s just a grown-up way of saying connect, talk and play with us.

    03:26 And here’s the really big news.

    03:29 Amarjot, Ari, you ready?

    03:31 (Audio) Amajat: Ready?

    03:33 Molly Wright: Copycat games build imagination and empathy.

    03:37 (Amarjot and Ari laughing)

    03:41 Naming games build vocabulary and attention.

    03:45 Amarjot: Daddy. Ari. Daddy. Ari.

    03:50 MW: And games like peekabo -- yep, peekaboo --

    03:53 actually build memory and trust.

    03:56 Amarjot: Peekaboo!

    03:58 MW: Each time you talk to us, play with us, make us laugh,

    04:03 it not only builds and strengthens our relationships and mental health,

    04:08 it actually teaches us some of the most important life skills,

    04:12 from making friends to taking the test,

    04:15 to getting a job,

    04:16 to one day maybe even starting a family of our own.

    04:21 Interactions early and often matter.

    04:24 Take it from me,

    04:25 the seven-year-old up here talking about brain science.

    04:29 (Laughter)

    04:30 OK, now let’s see what happens when the connection is taken away.

    04:37 So now he’s trying to get his dad’s attention again.

    04:40 He’s reaching out like, “That was fun, why have you stopped?”

    04:46 (Ari cries)

    04:48 I know it’s important for adults to use their devices sometimes,

    04:53 but kids are hardwired to seek out meaningful connections,

    04:58 not receiving them causes confusion and stress.

    05:02 OK, Amarjot, please re-engage.

    05:06 Amarjot: Ah, there’s Ari.

    05:08 (Ari laughs)

    05:13 MW: Now what if our whole childhood was like that last 30 seconds?

    05:19 How hard it would be for a child to feel calm.

    05:23 To feel safe.

    05:26 To learn to trust anyone.

    05:28 And the lifelong impact that would have.

    05:32 That makes me feel sad.

    05:38 Ari only reacted the way he did and recovered so quickly

    05:43 because the connection between him and his dad is usually so strong.

    05:48 The positive relationships with the grown-ups in our lives

    05:51 gives kids the confidence we need

    05:54 to try new things, to explore and be a kid.

    06:01 So please,

    06:04 try to remember the most special period for our development is

    06:09 the first five years.

    06:12 Starting from inside mommy’s tummy.

    06:15 What’s something really impactful you can do?

    06:18 Serve and return.

    06:21 And when?

    06:23 Early and often.

    06:26 Please give it up for a Amarjot and Ari.

    06:29 (Applause)

    06:37 Every moment together is an opportunity

    06:41 to connect, talk and play.

    06:45 Imagine the difference we could make if everyone everywhere did this.

    06:53 To us, the children,

    06:56 it’s so much more than just a game.

    07:04 It's our future.

    07:06 Thank you.

    07:07 (Applause)

    07:08 See? Peekaboo really can change the world.

    07:11 (Applause)

    How Every Child Can Thrive by Five” by Molly Wright is licensed by TED under CC BY-NC-ND 4.0


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