5.8: Culture (1) الثقافة
In this section, you will be able to:
- Learn about the routines of Arab families.
Arab families have varying daily routines influenced by factors such as cultural background, socioeconomic status, area of residence, and personal preferences. However, there are certain common elements that can be found in many Arab homes.
1. Religious Observances and Prayer: Religious rituals and practices are essential to the daily routine of many Arab families, be they Muslims or Christians.
2. Mornings: Many Arabs start their day with a cup of coffee or tea while listening to the Lebanese singer Fairuz as a daily routine. If they did not have enough time before work, they even listen to her songs while driving to work or on public transportation.
The video below presents one of Fairuz's most famous songs (Music only):
3. Family Meals: Meals are a significant part of Arab family life. Breakfast, lunch, and dinner are usually times when family members gather for food and socialization. Traditional Arab dishes, such as Hummus, Falafel, Tabbouleh, and Kebabs, are commonly served.
4. Work and School: Adults go to work in the morning, and children attend school. In some households, extended family members may also live together and help with household chores or childcare. Since gender roles are still prevalent in many Arab families, many women are housewives regardless of their level of education. They look after the household and children, taking care of their children's education as well. Even if they have jobs, the burden of the household falls upon their shoulders in addition to their work. However, this is gradually changing for the better, with many men sharing in household chores and responsibilities.
5. Siesta (قيلولة/Qailulah): In some Arab countries, people take a midday break known as "siesta" to rest or nap after lunch, especially in warmer climates. This practice allows people to rest during the hottest part of the day and replenish their energy for the rest of the day's activities.
6. Socializing and Leisure Activities: Arab families may engage in various social activities in the evenings, such as visiting relatives or friends, attending community events, or spending time together at home. Tea or coffee may be served during these gatherings, in addition to smoking hookah.
7. Dinner and Relaxation: Dinner is often another communal mealtime for Arab families, where everyone comes together to eat and discuss their day. After dinner, family members may relax by watching television, reading, or engaging in other leisure activities. Some of the most common activities are playing cards, backgammon (طاولة زهر/Tawlet Zahr), chess (شطرنج/Shatranj), and (برسيس/Barsees) also known as (برجيس/Barjees).
8. Bedtime: At the end of the day, family members prepare for bed. This may involve nighttime prayers, quiet activities, or spending quality time with immediate family before sleeping.
It is important to note that while these elements are typical in many Arab households, there is significant diversity within Arab culture, and daily routines can vary widely from one family to another. Additionally, modernization, urbanization, and globalization have brought changes in daily routines in Arab families, with some adopting more Westernized lifestyles and schedules.